Updated: Jan 1, 2019
Gifts are great and all, here's how to make that birthday sex an experience but you know what really adds a bang to your partner's birthday? Actual banging, but where they get to lay back and relax on their special day.
they will never forget:
Even if your partner likes surprises, they'll probably be into this one. Straddle their lap and slide them inside you, never once letting them actually see you. Sit them down and blindfold them for a strip tease. As you take off each article of clothing, brush the fabric across their cheek and let them feel each new body part you reveal with their mouth or hands. You just gave them a front row seat to the best show on earth.
Take your sweet time and experiment with different sensations—gentle light touches, deep strokes - If they've had a particularly stressful week around their birthday, help them really unwind. Fire up a candle that melts into massage oil for instant mood lighting and warm, scented oil. then pop a pillow under their hips and finish with a happy birthday hand job. (Finger up the butt is an optional add-on).
Right before they arrive, let them watch you ravish yourself with your hands or a vibrator before they can't stand it anymore and jump in with you. Tease them pre-birthday for all-day foreplay. Send a pic of a toy you're gonna use, a peek of side boob or a link to lingerie you'll be wearing. Escalate as it gets closer—take to your bed and keep them apprised of exactly what's going down via texts and Snaps.